Today’s post is a combo meal. You get two for the price of one largely because I couldn’t decide which one to blog on so here goes both.
My first concept is all about working hard and playing hard. I believe that working hard and then playing hard is far more efficient and productive than just working hard all the time. Each year I schedule a hard working day with my sons, particularly my younger sons. I do this to give them the experience of working on a hard project, jumping in, and just tackling something really difficult. I then make sure to always follow that up with a fun play experience.
The past several days I had my wife assemble a list of every nasty, disgusting, difficult assignment that she could come up that needed to be done for our rental properties. I took my two youngest sons, Timmy and Alex, which I affectionately refer to as my “Little Men” and we embarked on chasing down all these projects. Indeed we worked our guts out but actually had a really good time doing it. There’s a great personal reward in seeing a project through to completion.
After we finished our projects we went swimming in a natural spring pool, had a great dinner, and went crawdad catching. Now for those of you who have never tried catching these little critters there are a couple of things you need to know.
You can’t catch these things with your bare hands or even a net. You’ve got to toss a stinky, rotten piece of meat (I prefer bacon) on a string out in the warm water, count to ten, and then pull it in. This year was particularly good. Every pull we were catching anywhere from seven to fifteen of these little crayfish. My sons were absolutely delighted as they pulled in each catch with these little guys hanging on with one pincer and snapping with they other saying, “You give me back my bacon!”
This leads to my second concept: There are important things you have to let go of in your life in order to succeed.??There are a lot of life lessons associated with this. I’ve found myself acting like these little crayfish at times by hanging on too tightly to business ventures and projects. Things that would normally scare me and make me swim upstream to safety will actually grab my attention with a piece of stinky bacon. I hang onto that piece of meat, snapping away until something bigger squashes and kills me.
It is important that you give up bad personal and business habits and recognize when you’re hanging onto a piece of moldy bacon. We have a little business right now with one of my groups where we’ve been snapping away at it for nine months. We’re just not getting any traction. As a matter of fact we’re ignoring some other, more meaningful opportunities and I’m right on the verge of labeling it a bad piece of bacon and giving counsel to let it go. Now there’s a fine balance of being doggedly determined and then there’s pouring all your focus into a rotting piece of bacon. Do NOT be as those crawdads and hanging hang on until your very death when all you have to do is let go and live to swim another day. ??In closing here are the two key important business lessons of today:
Lesson #1: Work Hard. Play Hard. It’s far more productive than just working into oblivion.
Lesson #2: Let go of the caustic things in your life that are actually causing destruction, both in your business and personal life.